Tony La'Mont Spain II

November 20, 1989 ~ January 16, 2024 (age 34) 34 Years Old

Tony Spain II Obituary

Mr. Tony La’Mont Spain, II; aka “Patty”, the son of Melissa Alexander-Hamm and Tony L. Spain Sr. , was born Monday, November 20, 1989 in Durham North Carolina. He departed this earth on Tuesday January 16, 2024. Tony was 34 years young.

He attended Durham Public School. Riverside High was his favorite. This is where he met most of his lifelong friends.

Tony loved his family more than anything. He never met a stranger. When you met Tony, you had a friend for life. You may not always agree at times with him, but he was always there when you needed him. He enjoyed singing, cooking, traveling, and making people smile.

Tony leaves to celebrate his life, his mother Melissa Alexander-Hamm (Wilford Jr. “Cchio”) and his father Tony L. Spain Sr. (Tammy) all of Durham NC; Grandmother Connie S. Hunt of Durham NC and His Grandmother In Love Pastor Verla Spells-Hamm of Richmond VA; Sisters A’Kayla Davis, Brittany Marrow, and Oniesha Braswell all of Durham NC. Brothers Rodriquez Sutton (Leenita) of Durham NC, DeMario Spain of Mebane NC, Chavez Bowman Sr. of Charlotte NC, LaVonte Leak (Vonica), Joshua Hamm, Imari Hamm, all of Durham NC, and Karmi Hardin of Atlanta GA. Aunts Renata Spain-Steele (Kenneth) of Durham NC, Arnetta Young of Beltsville MD, Jacqueline Marrow of Raleigh NC, Arletta Archer (Warren) of Seattle, WA, Savai Smith and  Sohn Langston both of Durham NC, Patrice Hamm-Castello (Donne’) of Richmond VA; and Uncles Winfred Young Jr (Larissa) of Navarra, FL, and Nathan Hamm of Richmond VA.

Great Aunts and Uncles that Tony loved deeply: Maryjean Williams (James Jr.) of Carrboro, NC, Delores Young (Winfred Sr.), Audrey Johnson, Ronald Watson, Linda Warmley, Clotilda McLaurin, Ethel Mae Howell all of Durham NC; Otha Ray Watson of Newark, NJ;  Joann Long and Odessa Johnson of Hurdle Mills, NC.

And a Host of Nieces, Nephews, Cousins, and Friends.

Tony was proceeded in death by his Grandparents James and Helen Spain, Jerome Alexander, and Arney Hunt, and his Uncle Trevor Spain.

To send flowers to the family or plant a tree in memory of Tony La'Mont Spain II, please visit our floral store.

 Service Program

Friends and family have shared their relationship to show their support.
How do you know Tony La'Mont Spain II?
We are sorry for your loss.
Help others honor Tony's memory.


January 26, 2024

11:00 AM to 12:00 PM
First Calvary Baptist Church
1311 Morehead Ave
Durham, NC 27707

Celebration of Life
January 26, 2024

12:00 PM
First Calvary Baptist Church
1311 Morehead Ave
Durham, NC 27707


© 2024 Weaver & Peaks Memorial Funeral Care. All Rights Reserved. Funeral Home website by CFS & TA | Terms of Use | Privacy Policy | Accessibility